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« on: January 12, 2008, 04:38:45 PM » |
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How to Impress Girls…
Think, the first mistake most guys make when they want to impress a girl is that they keep thinking "I have to impress this girl"... Are you thinking that? WELL STOP IT...
The more pressure you put on yourself, the more likely you're going to make yourself into a nervous wreck. Are you all Zen-ed out now? Good.
I want to get across that, if you can't impress a woman by normal means or by who you are you are never going to. Believe me, if you TRY too hard to impress them, you'll wear them out.
From experience I'd have to say the easiest way to impress women is do small things for them. Being polite, and chivalrous are always big winners (and no chivalry is not dead, believe me). Like opening doors to cars/restaurants, seating your date or even just being polite to the person serving you. Women take mental notes of all these things and I’ll say about 8 times out of 10, they'll work in your favor.
Now what I mentioned above is the baby stuff, the real deal is actually in your hobbies. Part of the whole dating game is to get to know one another well. If it happens that you’re date/the girl you are impressing is interested in one of your hobbies, make use of that.
Let's say that you are a dancing enthusiast and your date has probably seen "Dancing With The Stars", take her to a studio and show her your moves, in fact teach her a few while you are there. If you are into making food, then make her dinner one night; or make it together. You follow me?
To sum it up the main part of this is to 'present your worth'. What women would really get from this is YOU at your most confident (because you're in your comfort-zone) and most knowledgeable; and in my experience this is the side you want to show them (all the time if possible).
So, the next time you want to impress a woman, remember: keep it simple, keep it with something you're already good at... and most importantly have fun. If you're stressing over impressing her, more likely you probably aren't.
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