Julianne
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« on: March 15, 2008, 03:07:35 PM » |
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Let's not be naïve... about one half of all married/living together people admit to having cheated on their spouses. Many people feel that they're not satisfied within their love lives or they are just plain bored. A lot enjoy the thrill of possibly getting caught, but whatever the reason; there are ways of telling if your spouse is having that affair...
Gifts for no reason – these are considered "Guilt Gifts"...
Change in personal hygiene – if your spouse is taking that extra shower when they get home... it's to wash off the remnants of their lover. This is a sure fire sign they're getting it somewhere else. They may want to show you some little tips that they've learned along the way...
Low self-esteem – when a person has low self esteem, it takes another person to confirm their masculinity/femininity and sex appeal. These types of people are usually being taken for granted at home...
Phone conversations or Internet conversations – These will end abruptly when you enter the room...
Revenge – if you should catch your spouse having an affair, it's probably because they wanted you to. The reason for this is getting revenge for something that you've said or done, and it doesn't necessarily have to be paramount...
What is gained? - The very fact that it's a secret seems to add a thrill to the encounters for most men and women, but I am also told that this feeling of excitement can become quite addictive. This means that when the bubble bursts, and real life comes crashing in on them, there is a scramble for the next chase and surrender.
There are many clues you'll encounter if your spouse is cheating, some more obvious than others... So good luck!
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